I've seen for a while that there are a lot of controversial opinions on this subject. Can I forgo the twin flame journey? What should I do if I want to get off the twin flame journey?

Since the twin flame journey is quite tiring, we often want to continue the journey with a soul mate who strengthens us and has an easier relationship. But we're forgetting a fine detail here. A twin flame is never about a relationship. The twin flame is to save our souls from burning. This time, we have to burn our souls, which we saved from burning. Because this time we have the strength and the tools to extinguish the soul that was once burned.

I explained the difference between twin flames and soul mates in this article. A soulmate position is a form of relationship involving two people, while a Twin flame is a connection and energy density that concerns a single person. In a twin flame connection, there are two people but one soul. Although this makes people's feelings and experiences more complicated, it is to remind them that the source is the same. In the twin flame, the source is one.

Where there is only one source, there is no question of giving up. Because that means giving up your own rights as well. Do you want to let yourself go? Then you are free to reject your twin flame journey. You can also find my article on denying the twin flame here.

In this article, we will examine when to give up the twin flame and how to do it.

What happens if I give up my twin flame?

Trying to give up the twin flame is wandering through a labyrinth and always getting to the same point. That is, you cannot move forward. You cannot tear yourself away from yourself. Giving up the twin flame can only happen in several ways. It's not called giving up. is to let it flow.

If you let your twin flame connection flow, stop obsessively following them and give your energy to them, you will return to your own energy. When you focus on living your own life, your inner peace begins to come. Of course, you miss your twin flame, but when you surrender them to the universal power, you know that they will come back to you at the best possible time.

Rejecting the twin flame is not the same as letting the twin flame connection flow. In one, your ego is constantly trying to push them away from you by saying that your twin flame is harmful to you. It's like a poison that eats into you. Your twin flame becomes estranged and you don't want to see it, but you continue to obsessively investigate everything they do. It slows your life down.

When you let your twin flame connection flow, there is the value you place on your own existence. You never stop loving your twin flame. As you respect yourself, you also respect the flow of their life. That's why you give your energy to yourself. You shape your goals and return to your social life.

You cannot shape your own life by constantly thinking about your twin flame. When most of your energy is in your twin flame, you may ignore even those closest to you. Your communications are weak, you don't want to do anything. All these are among the reasons that directly harm your self-worth.

If your twin flame is energetically taking over your life, it's your problem. This is why you cannot refuse the twin flame journey, which is your divine mission. This just causes more problems. You have to learn to live with the twin flame energy. This means that you only look at your own shadow with a magnifying glass. We must spend this great energy given to us not for destruction but for creation. Because healing is carried out only by people who can touch their wounds.

So even when I think I've given up on my twin flame, I'm still so strongly attached to it. Trying to reject my twin flame was preventing me from reaching the best version of myself. No matter what I do, all roads lead to a pure and strong love for him (i.e. myself). Because this strong magnetic love created by the soul is not something that can change.

When you try to change the system of the twin flame, you are damaging your own system, your existence. That's why I choose to pour my energy into myself and my work for a while. When I begin to obsessively think about my twin flame, I am aware of this and come out of the matrix. Because my mind is overthinking and asking me to doubt again on my twin flame journey.

I continue on my way by improving the lessons that my twin flame journey brought to my soul every day.

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