Picture the scene, you're at the bar and a woman keeps looking your way. You catch eye contact.

What do you do now?

The majority of women are shy and don't like to approach men they like because a rejection might crush them, so instead they can use subtle signs, like looking at you.

These signs have been called choosing signals, but I hate choosing signals because alot of guys use them as an excuse to not approach women.

Don't wait for these signs. If you like a woman approach her. Some women are so shy they may not even look at you, or they may just be in their own world.

You don't want to miss out on a woman for you.

Hey, hey I hear you saying.

So what do I do now.

Firstly Don't, and I repeat, don't look away, looking away makes you look weak.

Maintain eye contact.

Why? It makes you look confident

Don't Stare her down aggressively

Do

Look back at her in a sexy way.

How? Whilst you're looking at her, think to yourself, "I know you want me. I know you can't stop thinking about me. I know you're getting wet. Yes, I am the man, that's why you're looking at me".

This shows her that you're a confident man who is comfortable in his sexuality and isn't afraid to be sexual.

What usually happens next is, the woman will look away, but she'll be anticipating for you to approach. Just thinking about you approaching will make her wet.

Which is what you must do next.

You have no choice. You have to approach. For a woman to look at you and hold contact, it means she likes you. So it's not a giant risk. Keep that in the back of your mind as you approach her.

This isn't a cold approach. This is a red-hot approach. She's going to talk to you. She can't wait to talk to you. Don't try to think of any one-liners. Just approach her, say "Hi" and introduce yourself.

You've shown your confident by holding eye contact with her and then approaching her, the woman will be turned on, it doesn't really matter what you say, she'll be receptive

She might even be a little shy or nervous

Why? Because she's in the presence of a real man who isn't afraid to go for what he wants, and believe it or not women don't meet a lot of men like this.

Forget all the other talk, women are turned on by confident men. It's the way they've been programmed.

They love a man who doesn't care what people think and goes for what he wants, she'll be even more turned on if you do it in front of people.

Once you've introduced yourself, have a bit of chit-chat, no more than two minutes and get her number, if she offers you her Instagram or Snapchat, she's not interested.

Then go about your day and if you see another woman you like approach her too

The reason for this is it stops you thinking and obsessing over the woman all day long, setting you up for heartache if she does go ghost.

Call her later that day and set up a date, remember to include the time and the place she may still be interested she might not be.

Women are the weather, they can have high attraction one moment and then lose it at the drop of a dime, that's why you don't place everything on the one woman.

But shouldn't I wait three days? No way. In this day and age, within those three days a woman could be approached 100s of times on dating apps.

You want to strike the iron whilst it's hot.