Working long hours online, yet feeling stuck in the same phase?

You might be craving your next breakthrough — of earning more, worrying less, and reaping more rewards for the efforts you are putting in.

But despite all the grind, you feel limited.

• "I am not worthy of the success. Maybe that's not possible for me."
• "Winners are quite different, I guess."
• "The market is too saturated to let things work for me."

These were exactly my words when I was moving in circles. Same phase. Same situations — despite waking up with a full to-do list, working without looking at the clock, and ending each night checking off tasks.

Yet nothing changed:

• No growth.
• No increase in my financials.
• No improvement in my content metrics.

I started losing hope in myself.

But fast forward to today, after witnessing growth in writing, my products, and my career, I realized the problem wasn't just hard work.

It was about how I was thinking and acting…

Getting habitual with problems

We often nourish problems in our mind, like we get paid rent for letting them stay.

And then, instead of solving the issues, we grow them with love and tenderness.

We think about them. Regret them. Talk about them. But rarely act on them.

The result?

• You count the issues, not the solutions.
• You overwhelm your mind trying to prioritize the endless issues to tackle.
• And you end up solving nothing. Harsh, but true.

Over time, living with problems becomes your normal. What used to feel like a serious hurdle becomes a usual background noise of life.

I know because I lived it.

I was increasing my work hours without paying attention to what the next problem or challenge was to solve.

I was too busy to work on just one core challenge. And this realization hit me home.

For a year, I kept telling myself:

"My writing journey was chaotic because all my sources and learnings were unorganized."

I kept thinking about it. Kept regretting it. But I never fixed it.

I never asked that — what's stopping you from improving it now?

Finally, a few months ago:

• I revamped my writing system.
• Created a Notion learning system.
• Improved my Knowledgebase.
• Optimized my Medium writing process.

Result?

My Medium views shot up to 4 K+ monthly.

Here's the biggest realization that flipped the script:

90% of the problems exist in your head, not in reality.

Because we increase the shelf life of problems while being too slow to solve them. When you don't solve them, they multiply. They trap you.

You move in spirals instead of forward.

The lesson?

You know your problems. Solve them fast. Move on faster.

Saying bye-bye to ideologist thinking

There are two kinds of thinkers:

1. Realistic thinkers:

• They see a task and get it done.
• They see a flaw and fix it.
• They take action without drowning in "what-ifs."

They know what to do. And they do it. That's it.

That's what realistic thinking is.

2. Ideologist thinkers:

• They wish things were different.
• They could have done better.
• They should have taken another path.

They are trapped in…I wish. I coulda. I shoulda.

I was stuck in Ideologist thinking for too long.

"I wish I had done it better."

"I should've started earlier."

It's an invisible trap that keeps you locked inside your head.

Let realistic thinking drive you forward:

• What can I do now?
• What's the next step?
• What's the one improvement I can make today?

Stop Thinking Backwards

Let me ask you:

Are you putting your brain in forward gear or reverse gear?

When you drive, putting the car in reverse takes you backward. The same with your mind.

Most people keep giving their brains reverse gears:

• "I should have started that project 2 years ago."
• "I should have learnt that skill earlier."
• "I should have taken another path."

They don't think about what to do in the moment.

They think about what they had to do one year ago, 3 years ago, or a decade ago.

This backward thinking paralyzes your present.

The truth?

What happened, happened. Growth starts the moment you focus on what to do now.

This tiny mindset levels up your actions.

The moment you shift gears and act in the present, your life starts moving again.

Allows your wings to spread

You already have the power, you haven't fully met it yet.

So allow yourself to:

• Solve the problems faster.
• Think realistically, not idealistically.
• Focus forward, not backward.

These three simple shifts changed my life — how I think, how I act, and how I move through the phases of growth.

You have the knowledge.

You have the drive.

You have the potential.

Your next breakthrough is waiting on the other side of the small problems you start solving swiftly.

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