I know how feminine energy perceives the twin flame union.
Most feminine energies I know are bored with experiencing the twin flame journey as a process because they want to repair the heartbreaks they have experienced so far and receive the gifts of love as soon as possible
But if you are on the twin flame journey, you must discover and repair these heartbreaks yourself. We have a strong ability for this.
Feminine energy is more at the forefront of recognizing emotional wounds and understanding this emotionality. The Twin Flame journey is about the process of healing the inner wounds of individuals. The feminine twin flame leads the spiritual awakening of healing these internal wounds. The self-healing of the feminine twin flame also indirectly affects the masculine twin flame.
Feminine energy has a power that you don't even know about. Feminine energy can be connected to their common spiritual energy field with their twin flames. One of the most important ways to do this is for feminine energy to examine themselves emotionally and stay in touch with the masculine energy within them.
You can access the guide I prepared to discover how the masculine twin flame can emotionally participate in the spiritual journey and explore your emotions.
Mastering Emotions On the Twin Flame Journey; Using The Power Of Empathy
Feminine energies, you are sufficient and whole even though you exist. The fact that union becomes the goal in the twin flame journey leaves you with a deep sadness every day when the union does not happen, taking you away from real development.
However, union is timeless, and living in anticipation of something you don't know when it will happen always keeps you in the future. We live in the present. We are loving it right now. Our goal is not union. Our gift is not to obtain great love immediately. Our goal is to improve our self-being.
If our goal is to improve ourselves and transform our pain, the union will inevitably happen. Still, if our goal is to experience union concretely, then no development other than the union itself will make us happy; there will always be emptiness and dissatisfaction within us. The purpose of the Union is to return to our essence.
What do you expect from masculine energy? So how do you treat the masculine energy within you?
The reason why feminine energy seems so "needy" today is that they invest all their power in others and do not use the power within themselves. Divine feminine, you do not need the love of the masculine. You can live without anyone's attention. I think that divine feminine leaves the masculine energy within themselves very passive. The masculine energy within the feminine energy is an energy that shows us that we can create ourselves and meet our own needs, both materially and spiritually.
The role of the divine feminine is not to serve or provide. Since the divine feminine "borrows" the act of providing from the masculine energy, it always fails in its relationships because "providing" is the main task of the masculine energy. The task of the feminine energy is to make the masculine energy feel respected and loved emotionally. The divine feminine must maintain the emotional balance within themself and open emotional space for the masculine energy.
When the divine feminine is healthy within themselves, they begin to use their masculine and feminine energy healthily. The feminine energy needs to make peace with the masculine energy wounds within itself. This means that the divine feminine looks first at the paternal wounds and then at the patterned behaviors and traumas of their former partners.
I have prepared a guide to reach inner union and understand the emotions of yourself and your masculine twin flame.
Understanding Spiritual Union In the Twin flame Journey ( Guidebook PDF)
The divine feminine energy must find the common characteristics of its partners so far and determine which shadow behaviors these common patterns align with in its character.
The divine feminine must take back the masculine energy within them, the energy it has given to all past masculine energies that have entered their lives, and then heal this energy, strengthening the "wounded" feminine energy.
If wounded feminine energy is not integrated, it will constantly create a state of "neediness". Valuing our inner masculine side will also strengthen the healthy masculine energy of our twin flame. What we expect from masculine energy is to have healthy masculine energy that knows what it wants and to nourish this strong side with its feminine energy (emotions, compassion, abstract thoughts).
You are the feminine part of the greater twin flame energy within you. Your divine masculine side also reflects your twin flame. So the first thing I suggest to the divine feminine energy is to look at how wounded and shadowy its masculine energy is.
This is a process that starts with the father and then covers our entire love life. Without confronting the problems and memories here healthily, it will be very difficult to reach a union in the twin flame journey.
Do you know how important it is for the feminine energy to recognize the masculine energy within itself? As feminine energy, we often seemed to focus on always being self-sacrificing with the wounded feelings within us and treating everyone in our lives as a "mother," nurturing.
When the divine feminine discovers the masculine energy within them, they realize that they are not in this world to love others. When they activate the masculine energy within the feminine energy, they stand up for themselves and build the order of their lives by putting themselves at the center. This means the feminine unit has two opposite poles within itself without needing anyone's love.
Suppose a feminine energy whose physical gender is female always displays behaviors such as sacrificing herself to others, serving, loving others more than herself, and always striving for others. In that case, this is an indication that she ignores her masculine energy. Feminine energies have allowed their compassion and emotions to be abused. Now is the time to recognize these behaviors and improve them.
Feminine energy has a great magnetic field within itself. The power of the divine feminine, which can feed itself with the energy within itself and manage to grow its love by taking it from within, will grow day by day. Because, contrary to popular belief, the divine masculine energy has to dedicate itself to the twin flame feminine. Because masculine energy is programmed with the roles of protecting, providing, and caring.
Twin flame union depends on your masculine and feminine energies being in balance. I prepared an e-book to understand and actively use these two opposing energies within us.
The Language of Twin Flame Union: Awakening with Feminine and Masculine Energy
Masculine energy instinctively wants to provide protection and care to the divine feminine energy. It is the confident, loving, magnetic energy of the divine feminine that unconditionally connects the divine masculine to the feminine. There are 3 cards in tarot that I think strongly represent the Divine feminine energy. High priestess, Empress, and Queen of Pentacles.
High priestess is a powerful character with her deep intuitive abilities and ability to know and feel everything beyond the 5 senses. The focus of the high priestess is within, and they receives their power and indispensable energy from the source within them. It is so closely connected to itself that it makes it quite mysterious.
If the twin flame feminine energy is in a healthy feminine energy, the spiritual part of the separation ends.
The biggest reason why we hunger for love is that we hide the love within us from ourselves.
If the twin flame feminine energy is in a healthy feminine energy, the spiritual part of the separation ends.
You ask why?
We need to change our perspective on the union. Union is a state of integrity within us. Union does not occur physically. When the divine feminine becomes one with their infinite source of love, they eliminate the need for love and merge with their rich source within themselves.
Let's remember the belief that I already have it. When we realize that something we need is already ours, our physical need for whatever it is is over. Because we want the feeling that everything physical makes us feel. We want to be spiritually satisfied.
We fill the things we want to satisfy spiritually with physical needs. Emotional hunger can make us eat more and shop more. Addiction develops when we replace our spiritual needs with physical ones. Because when we look for the emotion, we try to put the physical there because it is not there in the abstract.
The process is the same in the twin flame journey. Every time you need the presence and love of your twin flame, you hide the love within you from yourself. Missing our twin flame and wanting their presence with us both try to tell us one thing. You refuse to feel the love within you. You're trying to get love outside, like approval. Until you find love within yourself, no one will give it to you.
If you want to see the article Part 1 of the development of feminine energy.
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I'm Bensu. I write about the mind, hard feelings, and self-love. My aim with my articles is to grow pure love in the world and inspire everyone to realize the potential within them.