There comes a time in many relationships where a couple decides they want some quality sexy photos to keep on hand. However taking sexy photos for two, the kind you keep and cherish, is harder than some would think. But with careful planning and honest conversations you can have an erotic photo session that will provide photos you'll want to keep forever.

Find some inspiration

If you're not someone who naturally feels like a sex goddess you'll want to peruse some boudoir photos online so you can get a feel of what kind of mood you want to capture. Are you thinking something traditional? How about some cosplay? Super sultry or casually sexy? There are thousands of inspirations out there ready to help you unleash our sexiest self on camera.

Decide if you're going amateur or professional

Look, if you want to get the best shots possible it's best to have someone else take the photos. Professionals know about lighting and can help coax you into the best positions that guarantee a flattering end result. You can be a stone-cold fox and look like a potato if your positioning is bad. However if you're looking to save money that's fine. Research as much information about colors, lighting, and camera placement online before the shoot. Spending half the day or night arguing while you look up tutorials will result in rushed photos where both of your brows are etched in displeasure. These are not the sexy photos you were looking for.

Discuss what you're comfortable with

This is a big one. Do not take photos with someone you can't trust. These photos will be for both of you, so that means you two have to agree on the type of sexy photos you want.

As a rule of thumb, there is no middle ground. The furthest the photos go in terms of raciness is how far the least risky person is willing to go. If your partner is trying to pressure you into more than you are comfortable with, then call the whole thing off. When using a professional include them in the group chat and make sure they know the rules before you start. Ensuring that everyone is comfortable and on the same page removes the chances of having one of those awkward moments that cause tense conversations. That tenseness will be seen later in the final proofs.

Take care of the temperature

Sounds obvious but you'll forget. Pre-warm or cool your room. Finessing the room's temperature isn't very fun and a bunch of photos of you dripping in sweat or covered in goosebumps will be the result of poor planning.

Choose lingerie that makes you feel sexy

Don't buy sexy things because other people tell you that they are sexy. Find what makes you feel confident. One woman's little red bra and thong is another woman's sensual flannels. Hey, don't judge. If you're constantly moving around to adjust a fit, to pull a cup down, or hide a roll you don't like, then the photos will be ruined.

Put on some music that puts you both in the mood

You're not going to get the shot you want on the first take. So create a playlist with various tunes that make you both want to dance. Preferably music that also makes you a little horny as well. Even if you don't usually listen to music while you're having sex, having some tunes playing in the background will make the process of taking sensual pics feel less clinical. Unless you're going for an American Gothic theme. In which case no music is needed.

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