This article isn't likely to be pleasing to some, but I couldn't resist writing this after reading one too many possibly well-intended (but sadly misguided) "advise" encouraging those who have felt their guides telling them to no longer message their Twin Flame to still continue contacting them (despite their Twin Flame not responding, whether in 3D or at 4D telepathically or at an energy level).

First and foremost, the Twin Flame journey is to develop a participant to be fully comfortable and accepting of oneself. This therefore means being completely self-sufficient and happy, even without any counterparts. This also means that one must learn to respect oneself, and be willing to let go and move on when it is very clear that a connection is no longer for one's highest good or providing the necessary support.

It doesn't matter even if one still feels the deluge of emotions from the other Twin, both still unconsciously mirroring each other in daily living in the 3D, sensing astral/telepathic sex from the other, etc. You can and you should move on, if the other Twin isn't providing what you need, and even more importantly, what you, as a self-loving person, deserve.

What is even more ironic is that those providing such advise are themselves being ghosted, blocked, or do not even receive any energetic returns from their "Twin" at all, nor do they sense any "longing" for them from their Twin.

Why then hang on, and worse, tell others to hang on, to clearly what is a completely unreciprocated connection?

Yes, the Twin Flame relationship defies all logic and isn't a conventional relationship.

But it is precisely because it is unconventional, that again one needs to know how to manage it if it no longer supports one's growth.

A Twin Flame connection is meant to encourage one to develop the inner self, and thereafter when one has achieved the growth required, to fulfil one's life purpose (with or without their Twin Flame counterpart).

It is not meant to keep one party obsessing over the other years, and years, and years, and years…(yes you get my point).

If there is any obsession, it should be with oneself, and what one has contracted with the Universe to fulfil in this lifetime.

It is not healthy, and one does not heal, if one is always still obsessed with the Twin Flame.

Yes, they come to our minds, they flood our emotions, they make us miss them, we feel their love, their longing, their sensuality, etc., etc.. Yet, they cannot, and should not, make us forget that ultimately, the biggest priority should be us, ourselves, not them.

So if your intuition or guides tell you not to contact your Twin Flame, then please do not. It is tough because your Twin Flame may be pulling on you so badly that your heart hurts and tears stream non-stope from your eyes, and messaging releases that pressure on you. But ultimately, it will only end up having you stuck into the same cycle of being ghosted and being unable to focus on your own life again. Therefore the process may take time, and baby steps may be needed, but still steps must be taken, rather than stagnating in the same fruitless pattern.

Treasure yourself, treasure your own time and energy.

If a person cannot respect you, your time, or your energy, even if it is your Twin Flame, you must love yourself enough and gain strength to walk.

And when you have that intention to, the Divine will send extra spirit guides to bolster you with the determination to fob off your Twin Flame's pull on you.

Then as you focus on yourself, joy wells up in your so naturally and most of the time (even if you are just simply walking alone or performing mundane work), that you will be happy just by being.

Miracles will then also unfold for you in the best ways possible.

Trust in the Divine, Trust in You.

Do not place your joy and happiness in any one else's hands, even if it is your Twin Flame.

Always be the master of your own wellbeing.

Namaste.

P.S. Nonetheless if you don't agree with what I wrote, then please ignore, as we are all entitled to our own respective opinions, and are at different stages of healing which leads to varying perspectives.